Dating an overly jealous person
Where do you draw the line between healthy jealousy and let’s say… A little jealousy never hurt anyone, but when guys let that green monster get the best of them, relationships can suffer.You’ve heard countless tips on how to make him jealous, but what if you want to do just the opposite?
A text here and there or a phone call at the end of the night lets him know you’re having fun but thinking about him, and that should ease his mind.
This is another narcissistic trait: the belief that only his or her feelings and opinions are valid, and that differences pose a threat. The person talks on and on about himself or herself and doesn't ask much about you, or is uninterested when you do talk about yourself. This person is not interested in you or your feelings.
He or she just wants you to keep your attention on them. The person is an older man or woman who has never been married and has been in a series of broken relationships, or has had numerous broken marriages. Abandoning one's children -- other than giving up a baby for adoption -- may indicate lack of empathy.
Lier believes that communication is the key to overcoming his insecurity.
He suggests asking your guy, “What has to happen for you to know that I am with you, and loyal to you?
People get together at their common level of woundedness -- i.e., their common level of self-abandonment. If this person cannot feel pain for your pain and joy for your joy, you will end up feeling very lonely in the relationship. Sometimes there are extenuating circumstances that prevent a parent from seeing their children, or a parent might come to the painful realization that it is not in the child's best interest to be involved with them.